What's your judgment missing about you?
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Hi Visionary,
Something I built for myself goes public this week, and I want to tell you why.
As you might guess, I'm a self-help connoisseur. I left home at 13, and I've spent the decades since working to understand myself, which means I've collected a lot of data about me:
How I'm wired: StrengthsFinder, Myers-Briggs, the Enneagram, DISC, a values bridge, and nearly every other major assessment out there. I also had a human design reading done a few years ago.
My body: nearly three years of sleep and readiness scores from my Oura ring.
My timing: I'm astrology-curious, so I keep a live reading of my natal chart, the map of where the planets sat the moment I was born.
Most of it is accurate, and none of it talks to each other.
The assessments live in a PDF graveyard in my folders. The body data lives in its own app. When I wanted the full picture, I went back and forth between PDFs, pasted assessments into a chat, and tried to piece it together myself.
I felt irritated and annoyed, and I knew there had to be a better way.
What I wanted was one complete picture of me, with every layer working together, so I could understand myself deeper and better.
Here's why that mattered so much to me. I believe that when you understand yourself more fully, you make better decisions, and better decisions add up to a better life. I've watched it play out in the people around me, and I've lived it myself. The seasons when I decided well became the best seasons of my life.
Think about a decision you would take back if you could.
Your body: a discount you agreed to at nine at night, after back-to-back meetings and four hours of sleep, because you were too tired to sit with it until morning.
Your wiring: a client you said yes to because you're built to keep everyone happy, even though the project never fit what you do best.
Your timing: a contract you signed in the same week as a launch and a family emergency, when every part of your attention was already spoken for.
In each of those moments, one part of you knew something the rest of you missed. The information was there, scattered across your body, your patterns and your circumstances, and the decision got made with whichever piece was loudest at the time.
When you're tired, the loudest part of you makes the decision. The full picture lets the wisest part weigh in.
That's why I built GINA. She's my personal chief of staff. Each morning she knows how my body feels, how full my calendar is, and what the timing in the sky looks like, and she has my briefing ready before I walk into the day.
I've always trusted my own decisions. They built the life and the businesses I have today. What wore on me was the assembly work: gathering every piece, holding them side by side, and working out what they meant together, every single time, before I could even begin to decide. A chief of staff carries that part so the leader can put her full attention on the decision itself.
Tasha, one of our beta testers and an entrepreneur in Sterling Heights, Michigan, put the outcome better than I can: "GINA helped me stop treating every opportunity like something I had to say yes to."
My co-founder and I built her for women who carry the final decision, whoever else is in their corner. GINA is invite-only, and until now the only people using her were our beta testers around the world. This week, you're the first people outside that group I'm inviting in. You've been my ride-or-dies through every version of this work, so it felt right that you hear it from me first. You can read the full story here, and your invitation is waiting at the bottom of this letter.
I have help almost everywhere: a team and contractors in my businesses, AI drafting and sorting right alongside them, and help at home. Until GINA, my judgment was the one part of my life without a chief of staff.
Your judgment can only be as good as the picture in front of it.
